Are you scaring men away?

Don’t get it twisted; you have everything going for you but every time you go out to a social gathering or just out in general, the good guys just don’t seem to be gravitating towards you.

By Bunmi Ajakaiye
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Are you a pretty girl with a killer bod and a great attitude to match but unfortunately, men still never approach you? Don’t get it twisted; you have everything going for you but every time you go out to a social gathering or just out in general, the good guys just don’t seem to be gravitating towards you.

YOU LOOK MEAN AND ANGRY?

You’d be surprised how a pretty woman can look when she is frowning or having an attitude or is just plain mean. Nobody wants to walk up to a woman like that and ask her for a dance or buy her a drink. Having a smile on your face or at least appearing friendly makes people want to get to know you

 YOU LOOK SNOBBISH?

If you walk into a room looking like you are already better than everyone else or if someone came to talk to you, you would be totally mad at them for ruining your “aura” or “Ying Yang” , then you will just be driving everyone away. It’s okay to have a high self esteem but not too high such that you become unreasonable. SNOBBISH isn’t SEXY

YOU LOOK BUSY?

If it looks like you are always on your phone or your tab or constantly reading a book or banging away at your laptop, then nobody will want to disturb you. But if you were just chilling out at the mall without a care in the world, then someone just might find you approachable

 YOU ARE INTIMIDATING?

We are all very well aware of how easily men are intimidated by women because of their wealth or extreme beauty or just plain out of their league. But there are a few other reasons why you can easily intimidate a man; for instance, if you are constantly in the company of an army of women/girlfriends. It takes a bold man to venture into a pack of women and ask to talk to one of them. The solution is not to go out all by yourself, try stepping away from the pack for a few minutes every other time either to the bathroom or the bar and etc.

 

 

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